Part of the phone conversations that i had with my mum over the years always included talking about Judith, id always ask....have you spoken to Judith today? My mum would say yes and fill me in on what had been talked about. Judith often spoke of Tilly ....the chocolate thief lol. My mum misses those conversations immensely. We still talk about Judith, my mum tells me about their childhood so she will never be forgotten, my mum always says never stop talking about someone even when they're gone even if it is painful. Memories are everything x